Expectations ( grumblings from a fully reintegrated change product- batteries not included)
Being in the same cty would naturally give you some expectations on relationships. For starters, a long distance friendship means that u are OK when u call up your friend say once a week or twice even to chat for say 15-30mins ( coz your international phonecard is running out u say). Unlike in the same cty, you would expect to hang out with your close friends, more than once a week. Imagine my surprise when my one of my closest friend says, lets just meet up 1-2 times a month,when I am finally back ,after 1 year of telling me that she misses me on the phone almost every phonecall....fine... Probably thats why its easier to have long distance friendships, less committement, less expectations, less communication to know what a terrible person you truely are.:PPPP
Guess the same goes for long distance bg relationships, its a bad word, "long distance" gives u the impression that certain things that you naturally want out of a relationship, are easily compromised because of that dirty word "ld". It is thus not a REAL relationship.
The end.

2 Comments:
What's "ld" though?
Anyway, I still remember what Rohit always says, "Out of sight, out of mind." But funny thing is, you have never been out of my mind even though we havent seen each other for 1.5 year plus till you came back.
So there shall be something for us to treasure in lives. I suppose. :)
By Vega, At 1:23 PM
Ld = Long distance la auntie, you live in an acroynm cty lei.
Yes i know u love me, let me tell u that the feeling is mutual :)
By Ying, At 1:53 PM
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