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Friday, December 30, 2005

Freezing+Kimchi+ Lost in translation

Better blog about this before 2006 comes :)

3 weeks ago, went on a long awaited family trip to Seoul. Don't ask me why, but I kinda thought that South Korea should be ok to get by, failing to think TOO much into the language barrier. Plus all those korean serials, the actors always spout a few english sentences what...so I was misled hehe. Interestingly enough, Korea seems to be pretty much influenced by China, apparently they follow the chinese characters till some time back when the ruler wanted to simplify the language.Palaces too have similar architecture to the Chinese ones.
Gwangdong Palace PICT3486

Anyhow, a few highlights of the trip:

- Was a nice bonding trip among us kids, esp when all 3 of us are hardly at home at decent hrs. Bro is only back for 1 mth or so from his studies in UK, Sis works till wee hours every single day, and me? well have to say that my parents see me the most, though i have my fair share of eating out, going on hols, coming back late. So for us kids and parents, we really got to see each other more.

- Seoul was freaking cold, -6 and -9 ( I rem when I msned Chau who was in Finland that time, its only -2 at his side!) when we went up to the ski resort Yongpyong, incidentally that is where Winter Sonata was filmed. I am sure you korean serial junkies out there are all too familiar with that, which propelled Bae Yong Jun into stardom. There are even a Winter Sonata cafe and photo taking shots dedicated to it...amazing....:P actually while I was researching on the itiernary of the trip, I have seen Korean Drama Serial tour packs where they bring you to the location shots of those serials..omg! But funnily though all this cold weather reminded me of my times in Stockholm...:)
Ski cable car to the peakPICT3433 View from the peak
-Language is such a huge problem, its like a charade game where we have to act out what we wanted... It was like what Jonghoon said, he did the exact same thing when he was in Shanghai and he doesnt understand Mandarin. Even more so both of us are asian looking, so maybe we could pass off as Korean or Chinese. Sad to say, the youngsters don't speak much English as well, when I thought I would have an easier job to approach the younger pple.

- KIMCHI for Bfast, Lunch and Dinner....yes that preserved chilli vinegar vegetable which has a sourish smell was served at every course of the meal of a day. The concept of Korean food is that there are alot of small side dishes kind like appetizer before you get your main meal, but you still eat those small dishes ( which are normally refillable as you go along)...Well after the 1st 2 meals, lets say we pretty much left it ALONE for our other meals though it was served! Oh yeah, I ate never ending BBQ Beef, meat, grilled meat etc during our time there too, was craving for good old steamed, fried, whatever etc stuff back home...
Kimchi
Grilled beef with side dishes

-R-E-S-P-E-C-T what amazed me is that korea seems to be governed by civic morals in an everyday citizen. In the trains,though there are designated seats for the old, handicapped and pregnant ladies ( which really has only old pple seating there not youngsters) , it is a common sight to see youngsters giving up their seats to old people. In one case, this pregnant lady even gave up her seat to an oldie....I guess its nice to see the goodness of pple instead of implementing fines for all this to work :P, even though maybe in some cases where respect to the older / or seniors may come out to be more bad than good ( from what i heard from JH Park), when this all forms as an expectation.

Anyways its also through challenges like these that we encountered 2 very very nice locals...

Nice Lady A: When I approached her for directions to our ski bus pickup, (in that freaking cold weather where i just want to stay home), even though she had no idea, she went on another bus and approached that bus driver for directions and walked with us to that pickup point, that we spent around 20 mins. In the end, she said enjoy your ski trip!

Nice old gentleman B: I have to say I have yet seen such a good person in my life till i met him. Encountered a few problems upon reaching the ski resort as I couldn't find the counter to get the ski passes and arrangement, this guy is responsible for our coach transfer but he has one of the best English around, he on his own accord brought us around the resort, contacted my travel agent for the ski resort on my behalf and helped to settle some stuff. He even brought my sis and bro to rent the ski equipment and advice on taking lessons etc. He was such a nice person that we started wondering:" Why is he so nice?" Just turns out he is really a helpful, selfless and nice guy, shouldnt think twice, there are SUCH pple in this world but few.:)

It really takes 1 nice person to create a positive impression of a country etc, which made me think about this particular lady in the Swedish tax office when i wanted to draw my last paycheck, I was close to giving up understanding what i need to give this other lady ( no english thank you) some tax/income stuff that she came to the rescue and solved everything.I loved her then and there! Conclusion: You REALLY need 1-2 nice people in this world!

- Shopping, you can find anything in any colour and any design in Seoul. I am not kidding. We visited Dongdaemun ( apparently THE hip shopping place) and Nandaemun,the mall concept is so different from any country I know. Instead of nice spacious shops, its all in the form of cramped stalls selling the same things in every floor, so we would have Shoes and Bag then you will find stalls on that floor selling ONLY shoes and bags. When you go to malls with DEPARTMENT stores as its name then its the normal kind that i am used to. Myeongdong and Insadong are my favourite shopping streets! :)
Myeongdong insadong
Myeongdong & Insadong

- Weird, interesting gadgets/ happenings:
1. Phone Cell Recharger Locker - where you can just leave your handphone battery in the locker for designated hours to charge it up!
Phone cell charger locker

2. Let me introduce you to the Etiquette bell in your toilet cubicle. Apparently it exisits as well in Japan, Korean consider it rude to hear "sounds" when you are doing your business, and you can click on the red button of the Etiquette bells, instantly you are greeted with "the chirping of birds" ( thats what i got), or " the flushing of water" ( thats a fake flush of course)....i was very tickled with this concept!
Etiquette Bell

3. Selling wares on the train- Oh before I forget, public transportation in Seoul is really really cheap, you pay only SGD$1+ to take to over 15 stations! And they have spacious corridors where pple can hawk stuff, like gloves, and torch lights! So spacious that we actually witness 2 old men fighting/ strangling each other on the other side of the train hehe

Oh yeah, a note to the girls, the guys there are not as HOT as those appearing in the serials, so you can save that plane tix and spend it on more serials!

Thursday, December 29, 2005

Touched

Received cool xmas greetings via sms and emails this year from my friends "made in Sweden" and others abroad. There were short and long email updates on how they are doing right now, happy for all them to be doing so well! Remember the wedding that I attended in Sri Lanka in May, well we have a baby coming our way in 2006 :) Congrats to Suren and Thisanthi!

Touched that I was not forgotten and friendships forged in foreign environments remained strong.

Marks 1 year back in Singapore - 24.12.05

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Whoppee!

eason
Eason Chen


All thanks to friends who work in showbiz, i will get to see him tmw! :)

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Workcycle

A baby's got to do what a baby's got to do...
So cute these babies, especially those chubby cheeks!

Stage 1: Before Work
Before

Stage 2: Induction
Induction

Stage 3: Working
At Work

Stage 4: Problems at Work
Probs at Work

Stage 5: Increment please
Increment Pls

Sharing

Love the About sites, think its Canadian, very informative, userfriendly sites about every other thing. Was browsing for investing sites, and came across Investing Lessons for Beginners with its multiple choice quizes at the end of each lesson to make sure you really learn.Its a great recap for me from my uni accounting module days :)

Oh oh oh love their words of encouragement when you get every answer correct leading you to the MILLION dollar question, its different all the time!

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Unleash and behold

Was trying to show Viv my new hair colour taken from my mobile earlier on, that I "unclogged" the rest of the random photos that I had taken weeks ahead. So enjoy!

Pancakes on the Rocks! THE Sushi Bar in Sydney Water boiled fish
My new Bf Kaya Toast B-52

1st Row Left to Right:
1.Pancakes on the Rocks at Harbour Bridge, Sydney, great start of the day!
2.Picked it up from the mag, apparently was THE sushi bar in Sydney
3.The name is "Water Boiled Water" Sounds bland? Well imagine my surprise when I found out that its actually fish slices in chilli oil (Local Shanghainese dish)

2nd Row Left to Right:
1. Check out the newest hunk that happened to drop by at the Orchard Library :)
2. At the Kaya Toast stall at the new Wisma Atria Foodcourt, you gotta check out the MOUNTAIN of butter
3. Discovered a new yum drink thanks to Ms Aw, B-52. Imagine 3 layers, nicely put one on top of the other, Baileys, Kahlua and Amaretto..yum! A looker too!

Realised that most of my pictures are really on food, that explains the diet...less booze more carrots :P

"Last Xmas I gave you my heart"

Contrary to some people who have been complaining about how commercial Xmas has become or particularly in Asia and hearing the same jingles over and over again at shops. ( The last xmas song seems to be the most popular tune, there were 3 shops playing the same song on the same street in Seoul)

I decided that I like this time of the year.

Everyone seems to be happier and nicer in general, and as most of the office staff are on holidays, pace at work has slowed down considerably. Relac ah brother.;) Though I admit I feel the pull or pressure to consume/buy presents drawn by fantastic discounts and the reciprocity act. Oh well! :D

4 more days to Christmas, last min shopping seems to be in the plan.

Merry Xmas to All and Happy New Year in advance!
Merry Xmas

A Little Lightheaded

Started on a 14 day No- Carbo! ( bye bye rice, noodles, pasta, bread and biscuits) diet 2 days back, diet consists of only yogurt, meat, vegetables and fruits. Sugar level in blood is down, which makes me kinda light headed these few days. What great timing with Xmas and new year round the corner- feasting scene and parties in action, I know I know, but I thought what the heck! Have to start somewhere. Will be aiming to go gym 3 X times a week as well. If there are no results seen by then, fine i can celebrate by feasting on the 2nd Jan.

Oh by the way, some interesting discoveries to share before you take that drink for Xmas or New year :)
Alcohol calories

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Seoul Day 5

Have to say that its strange but in this freakking cold weather of -9 degrees and strong winds here in Seoul, reminded me so much of Stockholm and friends made there and nice, warm, fuzzy memories. Guess I will always feel this way when I go to a cold winter cty from now on.


I really forgot how cold -25 degrees is.

Friday, December 09, 2005

This Is Good :)

a very nice story and very timely for today

STORIES - This is Good!

There once was a king who favoured one of his advisors very much because he was very wise and always gave useful advice. The king took him along wherever he went. One day, the king was bitten on the finger by a dog, and the wound quickly got infected. He asked the advisor if it was a bad sign. The advisor said, "This is good!"

The king's finger subsequently got so badly infected that it had to be amputated. The king asked the advisor again if this was a bad sign. Again, he said "This is good!" By this time, the king had lost his patience and sent the advisor to prison.
One day, the king went hunting in the jungle. In pursuit of a deer, he ventured deeper and deeper into the jungle, where he got lost. To make matters worse, he was captured by the natives who lived inside the jungle. They were about to sacrifice him to their god, but when they noticed that the king was one finger short, they released him immediately. Apparently, he was no longer a "whole" person and was deemed unsuitable for sacrifice.

The king finally understood his advisor's wise response "This is good!". If he hadn't been bitten by the dog, he wouldn't have lost his finger, and if he hadn't lost his finger, he would have been sacrificed by the natives. He ordered the release of the advisor and apologized to him. But to the king's amazement, the advisor was not upset at all. Instead, he said, "It was a good thing you had me locked up."

"And why is that?" asked the monarch.And the advisor replied, "Because if you hadn't locked me up, I would have followed you into the jungle. And since you were unsuitable for sacrifice, the natives would have offered me up instead!"

Nothing that happens in this world can be judged as absolutely good or bad. Taken in the right spirit, everything that happens can eventually lead to a positive thing. So when something unfortunate happens to you, don't despair? it might turn out to be a blessing after all.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

From Krabi to Seoul, Sun-tanning to Skiing

Boats

"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"
"Another man's flesh is another's poison"
Hmmm... what else? think I am getting awfully reflective and philosophical of the late. Must be due to nearing the end of the year mood...

Am all tanned/ sunburnt/chocolified ( I was even significantly darker than Babi Kangkong when we compared yday) / not forgetting PEELING back from my weekend trip to Krabi, wished I would instead be going further up in the northern hemisphere where those pple who kill, rob. die, be horribly jealous for a "brunt" complexion than going to countries ahem! who worships the whities....

Going to Seoul ( yeah the land of goodlooking, doe-eyed, hot chicks and hunks well judging from the Korean serials that took Asia by storm) for a long awaited family trip ( oh boy this is going to be "interesting"!) this weekend for 6 days, think the last time we did that was in 2002? Anyways as my sister vehemently objected against taking a tour package which would be a much easier option travelling with 2 oldies, and 3 kids, and for a cty that speaks little english. I had to do background research for the itiernary for Korea, booking for ski resort and accomodation, well so far the tourism websites are really helpful, lets see when I get there. Its going to be freezing minus something degrees there, " horray" :P and yeah at least my winter boots and jacket are in use again!
Nails+Pool+ Beach Turquoise waters
Islands by the waters
On Krabi, clear turquoise waters, sandy beaches on an array of different small isles, went to Podi and Chicken islands( this isle which is shaped like chicken really!). Definately going to go back and do the rest of the isle- hopping! Plus I got to do my 1st ever pedicure which I have already ruined.:P

Oh well.....Maybe I will end up looking exotic in Korea then harhar

Monday, December 05, 2005

Reconnect

In your life, you will lose some very important friends along the way
Be it lack of interaction
Be it lack of time
Be it lack of interest
Or maybe just a lack of convenience

Due to different paths chosen or fleeting distractions that occupy that phase of your life

So when I get to reconnect with some of my old dear friends, I thank fate and whoever up there for letting this happen. You never have to break ice and talk about hows life, you can relax, trust them not to let you down and just be yourself and feel comfortable as they will accept you for what you are and you for them.

Just hope that its good news next time that presents such an opportunity.